Friday, January 28, 2005

Happy Birthday Sifu

2005 Happy Birthday to SIFU!



Welcome everybody to Sifu’s 35th birthday!

It hardly seems like 12 months since we last celebrated Sifu’s birthday but alas, time does pass very quickly.

Tonight is Sifu’s special day, and it also ushers in the beginning, of the not too distant, Chinese New Year, the Year of the Rooster, 4702! A year that promises about the same luck as in 2004. The rooster, a romantic star in Chinese astrology, promises very favorable unions for those of you who are interested.

But I am getting ahead of myself here. This past year has left its mark upon us in many ways and has taught us valuable lessons, some good and some not so good. It is indeed up to us to learn and take ourselves to another level.

As mature individuals, we can no longer put off todays, for tomorrow.
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift.

We have gathered here for many years, seen our children grow into young adulthood, watch each other age gracefully and abundantly and grey a wee bit, and maybe even traveled down the road of life in a circuitous manner.

But guess what? We are truly blessed. For all those misfortunes we have experienced, there were many doors and opportunities that had opened for us. Question is, did you know it or did you see it? Did you take advantage of it? If not, ask yourself why not?

Too many of us have untapped potential and abilities that have laid dormant. This is the year when we do something about it. Birthdays are not for looking back but rather looking forward and leaping into the future with determination and gusto. A realization that there is so much ahead and a limited time in which to execute.

We take this celebration for Sifu to not only honor him but to honor ourselves. To take those pearls of wisdom, those lessons of life that he has bestowed upon us, to plant our own seeds in life. So that those special people with whom we contact, receive a measure of that which we nutured through blood, sweat and tears.

Just like Sifu had repeatedly said before, “I go through all the hard parts so that you can reap the benefits of the 15+ years you would need on our own”. He has said so much to influence our lives without saying it directly. And it’s only now that some of us have really heard the message. It unfolds slowly, but once the water flows, it flows freely and swiftly.

We honor you Sifu for that which you have taught us and that which you have yet to teach us. We, your humble students, thank you and honor you on your special day…

Tuesday, January 25, 2005

The Yellowbrick Road is sometimes under repair...

Life can be a series of ups and downs,
but try not to participate by wearing a frown
There will be times when breathing gets tough,
getting through life in a series of huffs
But it's not necessary for you to participate,
plan your strategy so you can anticipate
We've all lost someone who was special to us,
no need to cry, stammer and start to cuss
Just pick up yourself with a kick in the rear,
You'll conquer your worst enemy, something called fear
Fear of the unknown, fear of what's ahead,
uncomfortably heavy, keeping you in bed
You got to get up and move ahead,
gather your bearings and lightly tread
Down life's road all covered with stone,
a journey one makes not necessarilly alone
For life's too short to go it alone,
if you do you'll soon bemoan
Side by side we travel as one,
life's spinningwheel, what gold it's spun
Look for the best in all that you see,
your heart will be filled with heavenly glee...

Lifeline to Nirvana

Meditation...a divine process that enables one to delve into the mysteries of the universe and obtain answers to the esoteric.

Not something hokey, religious, nor weird. Just plain connecting to the cosmos.

All it take is introspective unity connecting with the universal energies. The hard part is opening oneself to the message. Sometime we do not see the trees in the forest.

We all have this innate ability, it just has to be awakened.

Monday, January 24, 2005

Reach out and touch

With all the hoopla going on these days, it is sometimes hard to focus on what's really important in our daily lives, our immediate family.

They are the most important facet of our lives, know it or not. We draw upon them for strength and direction. If you do not, perhaps you need to ask yourelf why not.

I realize that not everyone has a family but remember this. A family is any unit that provides you the security and aura of belonging. It could even be a friend.

Smile, and lend a helping hand. You never know what that other person may have experienced, good or bad. A little kindness goes a long long way. When the last time that someone gave you a nic epat on the back for some unmnown reason and that gave you that boost and belief that, "hey, life's not all that bad!"

Remember, you reap exactly what you sow. If you want to win the lottery, you have to buy a ticket.